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Recognising and Healing from Toxic Relationship Patterns
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Recognising and Healing from Toxic Relationship Patterns

Recognising and healing from toxic relationship patterns isn’t easy, but it’s a crucial step towards emotional well-being. Every person deserves relationships that are built on mutual respect, support, and love. If you find yourself stuck in an unhealthy dynamic, know that change is possible, and support is available.

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Understanding the Intersection of Grief and Trauma
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Understanding the Intersection of Grief and Trauma

While grief typically follows the loss of a loved one, trauma can arise when the loss is sudden, violent, or deeply distressing. Together, they can create a unique healing journey that requires patience and self-compassion.

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Understanding the Impact of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
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Understanding the Impact of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

As the seasons change, so can our moods. For some, shorter days and colder temperatures bring more than just a preference for cosy blankets—they can trigger Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a type of depression linked to changes in daylight exposure.

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The Connection Between Anxiety and Sleep Disorders
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The Connection Between Anxiety and Sleep Disorders

If anxiety and sleep disturbances are affecting your daily life, speaking with a mental health professional may provide valuable insight and support. If you’re looking for a place to start, anxiety counselling can help you understand the underlying causes of your anxiety and develop strategies to manage it effectively.

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Reclaiming Daily Life: Strategies to Manage PTSD Triggers
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Reclaiming Daily Life: Strategies to Manage PTSD Triggers

Living with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can feel like navigating a minefield, where unexpected triggers can disrupt even the simplest of tasks. While it’s impossible to avoid all triggers, you can develop strategies to manage your response and reclaim control over your daily life.

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How to Support a Loved One Experiencing Complex Grief
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How to Support a Loved One Experiencing Complex Grief

Complex grief, sometimes called prolonged grief disorder, goes beyond the normal mourning process. It can feel as though the world has stopped for the person experiencing it, making it difficult for them to move forward. If you have a loved one dealing with complex grief, you may feel unsure about how to help. Here’s a guide to navigating this challenging situation.

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Why Small Wins Matter in Depression Recovery
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Why Small Wins Matter in Depression Recovery

Recovering from depression often feels like climbing a steep hill. But what if you didn’t have to climb all at once? Small wins—the seemingly minor achievements—are powerful stepping stones to progress.

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How to Recognise and Interrupt Anxiety Spirals
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

How to Recognise and Interrupt Anxiety Spirals

Anxiety spirals can feel like a runaway train of worry. One small concern snowballs into larger fears, leaving you overwhelmed and stuck. Fortunately, recognising the signs of an anxiety spiral is the first step to regaining control.

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The Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

The Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships

Your attachment style has a profound impact on your relationships. Understanding how these patterns play out can help you develop more fulfilling, balanced connections. Professional counselling can support you in navigating these dynamics and improving your relationships.

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Beyond the Flashbacks - Understanding PTSD Symptoms
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Beyond the Flashbacks - Understanding PTSD Symptoms

PTSD is a complex and deeply challenging condition, but it is treatable. By understanding the symptoms and seeking the right professional support, you can begin the journey of healing. Counselling can help you move beyond the flashbacks and work towards a fuller, more peaceful life.

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Moving Forward Without Forgetting: Coping with Loss
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Moving Forward Without Forgetting: Coping with Loss

Coping with loss is a journey, and it’s one that doesn’t have a set timeline. By embracing your feelings, finding meaning, and allowing yourself to heal at your own pace, you can move forward in a way that honours what you’ve lost.

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Strategies for Breaking the Cycle of Negative Thinking
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Strategies for Breaking the Cycle of Negative Thinking

Breaking the cycle of negative thinking is a process that requires effort and persistence. By actively challenging distorted thoughts, focusing on gratitude, and seeking support, you can reclaim your mental space and start thinking more positively.

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The Role of Counselling in Adjusting to Life After Divorce
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The Role of Counselling in Adjusting to Life After Divorce

Divorce is the end of one chapter, but it’s also the beginning of another. Separation and divorce counselling helps individuals embrace this new beginning with confidence and clarity, empowering them to rebuild their lives and find stability moving forward.

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The Role of Pet Bereavement Counselling in Healing After Loss
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

The Role of Pet Bereavement Counselling in Healing After Loss

Grieving the loss of a pet is a deeply personal journey, but it’s not one you need to face alone. Pet bereavement counselling offers the support and understanding needed to navigate this unique grief, helping you honour your pet’s memory and move forward with peace.

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The Role of Support Systems in Partner Bereavement
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

The Role of Support Systems in Partner Bereavement

Losing a partner is an unimaginable loss that changes every aspect of life. While no two journeys through grief are alike, having a strong support system can provide comfort, companionship, and understanding during this difficult time.

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Rediscovering Purpose After a Life Transition
Sami Hutton Sami Hutton

Rediscovering Purpose After a Life Transition

Transitions are part of life, yet they can sometimes feel like a daunting loss of stability. A major life change—such as retirement, moving to a new city, or ending a long-term relationship—can leave individuals questioning their purpose.

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